Kids

I'm not good in dealing with kids. Kids' mood is really unexpected, that's what's frightening me. It's different with my own. I enjoy being with my own kid, cause I feel like I know him and I feel like I know what to expect next. I thought I would change after I had my own, but it turns out that I'm still the same. I'm still frozen when it comes to new kids. I can't just play or thalk with them when I just meet them. Is it odd?